Bismillah.
Accepting something you never wanted is never easy. But when you begin to see it through trust in Allah's wisdom, you may come to realise that it is something you truly need.
Nothing truly belongs to us—not even our own lives. Everything is under Allah's decree. Yet Allah has given us the gift of du'a. Keep asking Him, for He is able to change what He wills. And if His decree remains, then ask Him to grant you contentment and His pleasure. You'll find your heart becoming lighter.
Every path carries its own wisdom. Every path carries its own blessings.
So place your trust in Allah, not in people.
People are just like us—limited, imperfect, and always in need of Allah.